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A five year old boy

by Killerbunny the god

Killerbunny the god So i decided to write a bit. This isn't meant to be funny or anything, it's meant for people to understand the psyche of someone with these experiences in life. There might come more like this one but i'm not making it into a series. This is only one thing that happened at that age.
The boy and his sister said their goodbye's to their mother on a cold november day. They were going to live with their father for the weekend. They saw their father's car and went over to it to get in. The boy, despite easily getting car-sick and being too short to see the road from the back, sat in the back. This was because during another one of these weekends he had been mean to his sister and had promised her that she could have the front seat for the rest of their lives.

"What kind of pants are those?" His father asked him with anger in his voice. The boy looked down at his pants. He was wearing red jeans with black and white lines both going vertically and horisontally, one cm apart.

The boy got scared and couldn't answer properly.
"They're my pants. Mom bought them for me" he said.
"You're taking those off when we get home" the father said.

The boy replied with a simple "no!"

It was quiet in the car for the rest of the trip. Neither the boy or his sister dared to talk because there was dangerous tension in the air.

(time skip)

They arrived at the father's house. Or rather, at their grandparent's house. Their grandmother waited on the porch and their grandfather was probably sitting in his chair as usual. The boy unfastened his seatbelt but before he could open the door, his father did.
"Take off the pants" he said with anger.
"No!" The boy said.
"Take off the pants now or i'll pull them of myself and throw them in the fireplace!" The father said, even angrier. The stubborn boy still refused. And this is where their grandmother stepped in.
"Please, (father's name). He's just a little boy" she said.
"But these pants make him look like a f*gg*t!" The father retorted.

The grandmother had no reply and walked away.

"Take 'em off now" the father said once more. The boy still refused. That's when the father violently pulled off the boy's pants. Then he grabbed the boy and pulled him towards the house. The boy's sister had already entered the house with their grandmother but the father and the boy stayed on the porch.

"You're staying here until i let you in" the father said. The boy, now crying out of both fear and sadness obeyed this time, even though it was freezing outside. No pants and no jacket in a cold November's day. His father went in the direction of the fireplace and that was the last time the boy saw those pants. His mother had bought them just that week. They had been brand new. And yet, the boy had loved them.

The boy hadn't seen or heard his father enter the house after that so he had assumed the father went through the side-door.

There the boy sat. On a cold November day. With no pants, no jacket and additionally, the boy had astma. He sat there until the sun began to set. He had no idea what was happening inside the house at the time but a few years later, his sister told him what she had heard the grandmother and the father say:

"Can't you let him in? It's freezing outside. He doesn't even wear a jacket!" The grandmother had said.
"He's not coming in until his learned his lesson" the father replied.

The grandmother didn't say anything more to try to convince the father but let the boy in after about twenty minutes, when the father had cooled down.
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  1. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    @ThePlayfulFox it is personal experience. And i'm currently wearing red pants so the joke's on him >:D
    Feb 3, 2020
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  2. ThePlayfulFox
    ThePlayfulFox
    I'm a bit late to the party, but what that dad did (I'm assuming this was a personal experience) was totally unacceptable.
    Feb 3, 2020
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  3. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    @m1h4jl0 it can get kinda complicated. And you don't NEED to consider your sexuality. You like those you like. That's it. You don't have to think further in my opinion. But there are those people who disagree with that.
    Feb 25, 2019
  4. MihajloJedi
    MihajloJedi
    This story is really...complicated. I like it tho. This sounds like situation that could happen in my country. Here, you simply can't be gay, bi or transsexual. It's not banned, but you would be hated by everyone, and even some of such people would get killed, just because of it. That's why we don't consider our sexuality. And yeah, all this hate toward gays is coming from religion. Pretty weird if you would ask me.
    Feb 24, 2019
  5. Leeon
    Leeon
    Right... I'd be confused whether to even tell him or not too. I wish that he would understand in time. It's YOUR LIFE! And you are free to like and be who ever you wish @Killerbunny .
    Jan 17, 2019
  6. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    Thanks @Leeon. Yes. That is how my father works. And that is why i don't know if i dare to tell him that i like both girls and guys. And everything inbetween too :(
    Jan 17, 2019
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  7. Leeon
    Leeon
    This story is kind of upsetting. Because the boy didn't do any thing wrong. His father is a dhole. I'm a father of 6. 4 boys and 2 girls. The youngest girl and boy are my own. The oldest boy is 14 now and he's not my actual son. But he has came to me telling me that he is gay or bi and I didn't think any different of him and I've never treated him any different. The oldest girl who is 13 who also isn't my actual daughter has came to me saying she likes girls and she has had many boyfriends. But I've treated her no different as well. And if MY TWO are ever to be gay or bi or trans then I've never judge them either. This is a really good story @Killerbunny . I am sorry if that was your father and if that's how he is or was. Parents should be more understanding.
    Jan 17, 2019
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  8. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    I most certainly will :)
    Jan 1, 2019
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  9. E.K.A.N.S.
    E.K.A.N.S.
    Put on your big boy pants. :p
    Jan 1, 2019
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  10. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    @E.K.A.N.S. i forgot to tell you, (and since what i'm about to say is related to this) i got some red jeans as a christmas present. This is a little scary. Exactly that one incident is the one that has been on my mind for the two latest months :-O
    Jan 1, 2019
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  11. Killerbunny the god
    Killerbunny the god
    @E.K.A.N.S. tell me something i don't know :(

    But even i don't know where all this comes from. I've heard different stories, one where my grandfather was a nazi (which would explain a lot) and one where he was just blackmailed by so many people.

    I don't know which is true
    Dec 3, 2018
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  12. E.K.A.N.S.
    E.K.A.N.S.
    It seems your dad feels embarrassed in public by the way his son dresses, because if he looks "gay" that reflects poorly on him as a father. Many fathers feel they've failed as parents somehow when their children come out as gay, trans, etc. Did I raise my child wrong? What could I have done differently?

    I don't know the guy and I'm not sure where this deep-seated homophobia comes from, but making a 5-year-old asthmatic kid stand in the freezing cold as punishment is highly fucked up and reflects even worse on his parenting. Besides, if he's somehow teaching you not to be gay or not to embarrass him in front of others by looking gay, beating these things into your kid's head before they’re even thinking about their sexuality is worse still.
    Dec 3, 2018
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