Hey, welcome! I noticed you were having some trouble using the private conversations here - that's because we have a "verification" system that blocks people from parts of the site until they've posted publicly. This is to help prevent spambots and other nasties. As you are clearly neither, I've gone ahead and manually verified you so you can use the system without restriction. 
Have a great time at 'Charms!
Have a great time at 'Charms!